Who is your favorite person to follow on Instagram?
Bjenny Montero @bjennymontero – he posts these whimsical drawings and comics that are dark yet comical and super relatable. amidst all the fit pics, thirst traps, and sponsored posts on insta, they’re the warm, fuzzy kind of content that reminds me to just enjoy it all and not too take things so seriously.
What’s your favorite gay lingo you use on a daily basis?
“Tea……” is a standard response to everything for me.
Which emoji best describes your personality?
What’s the first thing you notice about a person that you are interested in?
How warm they are, particularly by the way they treat other people.
What’s your biggest pet peeve on a date?
When someone talks over me, or cuts me off, or generally doesn’t pay attention to what I have to say.
When you’re home alone which song do you play at full volume?
Usually some KPOP girl group – lately it’s been “Peek-A-Boo” By Red Velvet. To me, it’s a recent addition to the canon of KPOP classics–it’s a perfectly crafted KPOP song.
Name one LGBT figure that’s doing great things but not getting enough attention.
My soul sister Mimi Zhu @mimizhuxiyuan is an angel of a being, a writer who has their own monthly-ish newsletter called “Write To Heal” that encourages everyone to use writing as a tool to heal from our current daily struggles as well as deep-rooted traumas. Even if you don’t consider yourself a writer, I highly recommend you check it out because each newsletter is so tender and emotionally raw that you will be glad you set intentional time aside to reconnect with these writing exercises. We could all use a little extra guidance with our healing.
Arrive early to party or the middle of the party?
Can’t remember the last time I arrived to a party on time…
One piece of advice you would give your younger self?
Wish I fucked up more, took more risks, didn’t let my inhibitions and fear of judgement hold me back from pursuing what made me happy, from being who made me happy. wish I went to more parties, made more friends, was as naughty as i wanted. because through it all, i know I’d be all right. I’m here now through it so far, aren’t I?
