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HUMANS OF BALLROOM – The Stories Behind The Magic

“Humans Of Ballroom” is a space that unifies the community from all over the world through storytelling. As the community grows into different parts of the world and pop culture, It’s the stories and personal experiences that will ground Ballroom’s voice as One. It’s without a doubt how society gravely impacted my community through every systematic oppression created. As a result, the community does a lot of self-inflicting on themselves and each other. Ball culture is an escape. Oftentimes, Ballroom forgets all that they are all escaping from. Humansofballroom exists to preserve the many intersectionalities within while shifting the current narrative of the ballroom. It exists to uphold the “soul” of the culture. To be viewed less as queer commodities. To add more empathy and be seen as who we are — human. 

BECKY REVLON

 

“I’ve literally always been gay. When I was about 12 my grandmother showed me old homemade videos of a family member named “Pat” that was murdered long before I was born. I was both saddened by the story yet in awe at the dances they were doing. Just in the living room tearing it up. I wanted to move like that. I asked her what kind of dance that was and she showed me “Paris is Burning” I don’t think either of us knew how important that moment was then. 
 
My older gay cousin (also in ballroom) who used to “babysit” me got nervous about leaving me home alone started allowing me to tag along with him and his friends to these events where we always had to lie about my age to get me in. Somehow he felt better doing that instead of just leaving me in the house, wtf?. 
 
Being in ballroom so young kind of forced me to be an adult way before I should have had to. I was put in situations children shouldn’t even know to exist and I’m sure I have some trauma because of it. It’s possible a lot of the bad habits and behaviors I’ve been unlearning recently are products of my youth which was honestly saturated in the ballroom. 
 
 Experience is knowledge. Knowledge is gold. I’m rich asf honestly. So, I’m grateful. Sometimes I look back and think “if I knew this then I’d do this.” As I look at the people I went to school with and converse with them, I realize I’m way ahead of myself as opposed to where I could have been, having I not found ballroom or myself. The education just hits different over here because I’ve always known what was up. They’re in a different place. I’m so sure it’s because they’re basic and ballroom-less” 
 

JADA REVLON

“People told me, in the beginning, that I would never be a prominent voguing girl. That based on where I started I would never make it anywhere else. Boy were they wrong. My experience through the last decade has given me everything I could’ve asked for. I have connections in places I wouldn’t have even imagined. More trophies and moments than I could count on two hands. More love and support than I have ever had. Ballroom has blessed me with so many loved ones and memories that’ll last beyond me. It’s not all peaches and fun and wins. There were moments that I wanted nothing to do with ballroom. But somehow, in one way or another, I’m always reminded that I’m valued here. That I mean something more to people other than just myself. And for that I am grateful. Forever grateful.” 

KIMIYAH AGA

“Protection. I feel like as a Fem Queen of ballroom when you are that person that brings a lot to ballroom, and inspires a lot of people they see you in a light that makes people want to protect you and make sure that you are always good.” 

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